Through the Intersections project, we hope to discover the rich tapestry of gender, sexuality, and relationship orientation.

We don’t exist in neat compartments. Each of us is unique and has unique experiences, and we believe we each have a unique story to tell that can help others. And we’d love to help tell your story!

If you’d like to be interviewed, click here to start the process.

This project is being done in cooperation with the Ohio University LGBT Center

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Trying some new things!

I’ve been at the OpenWest Conference in Sandy, Utah, all week working the nerd side of my brain learning about the latest open source software information. This afternoon, I’m attending a WordPress seminar and will be working on some updates to the site over the next few weeks. I do have a couple more interviews […]

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Michelle Wexelblat

Michelle is a bisexual, sapiosexual, polyamorous female who’s not femme except when she wants to glam up. She’s married to her husband of 21 years, has a grrlfriend of 2 years (who is engaged to a cis-male), and is developing a new potential relationship with a cis-male (who’s in a long term primary relationship with a cis-female). In this audio interview, we discuss her life, identities, and relationships.

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Bonnie Boyd

When I announced the Intersections project, Bonnie Boyd was the first to sign up! I visited her in her home, where we discussed her life as a monogamous, bisexual, genderfluid female.

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Jeff McCreary

Jeff hails from the beautiful state of Wisconsin, where he runs a bed and breakfast with his wife. Sexually, Jeff is gay and has an open marriage. Join us as we discuss his life’s journey and how his family and personal history influenced his sexuality and life.

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Russell and Tina Taylor

Russell and Tina are a delightful couple in a mixed-orientation marriage. Russell is bisexual and polyamorous, while Tina is straight and monogamous. In this audio interview, we discuss how they have made their situation work and their marriage thrive.

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Bob Denver

Bob is sexually gay but romantically bisexual, and very much in love with his wife. He discusses how he and his wife focus their relationship on abundance instead of scarcity and generosity instead of fear.

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I had the privilege of interviewing Kay during the Queer Studies Conference at Ohio University. They are panromantic and genderfluid with a non-binary gender expression. They also follow the philosophy of relationship anarchy. In this audio interview, we discussed their sexuality, gender, relationships, and life.

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Leandra Vane

Leandra Vane, also known as The Unlaced Librarian, is a bisexual femme who is in an open marriage. In our interview, she discusses her life and relationships, her exploration of BDSM, how her physical disability has influenced her sexuality, and many other things.

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Mark is a gay man who is romantically monogamous with his husband of two years while enjoying a sexually open marriage. In our interview, he shares his identity, life, and journey with us.

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Valerie White

Valerie White is a 70-1/2 year-old bisexual woman who has been in an open residential triad for 21 years. Together, they are living as a family and raising their 13-year-old twins. Valerie is also the executive director of the Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund and president of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness.

You may also recognize parts of Valerie’s story from the book Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino.

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